Failing to plan is planning to fail.
I love such type of playing with words, especially when I cannot disagree with their meaning.
And I think that sentence is the basis of Time management, which was the topic of today's workshop. (What's funny here is the fact, that the most of us were late right on that day xD)
I give it up easily, without any fight - I've always thought I'm awful in time management! I'm often late, I don't make TO Do Lists, and so on. And it's not like I don't have an idea how to do it or something like that... No, I just don't do that - planning, organizing, prioritizing... what do these words mean? :P
Maybe the reason is I've never actually realized the importance of time management. I've never needed that, because at school I've never spent much time learning my lessons... Everything was easy to me, so I've always had enough free time, and wasting it has never being a problem.
At today's workshop I got a pretty good idea why is that so, why I needed so little time to do anything.
It's called Pareto’s Principle (80/20 Rule) and it sounds like that:
80% of Work gives 20% Results
20% of Work gives 80% Results
That's the difference between Smart work and Hard work, and that's also the difference between me and a big part of my ex-class-mates, which were reading, and reading, and reading, and, at the end, I had the same notes without doing any hard work.
So, now I know, that I've actually never been so bad at time management... I've been somehow using a great time-managing principle without even knowing about it, only by doing my work in a smart way, and it has saved me looots of time. (:
However, I guess things are going to change a little bit now, when I'm going to be a student. All the time I can get will be welcome, and starting to consciously manage my time well may be very important.
Today I heard some really good advises how to do that. I like e.g. the so called Stephen Covey's time management matrix (it reminds a me a bit of my beloved Johari Window in the cognitive psychology, but that's another topic). It helps you prioritize your tasks and decide which one you need to do, delegate, delay or delete. I'm not really comfortable with the delete-part, I would like to do everything I have/want to do... everything that has somehow got a place in my TO Do List... So, I'm going to try that method, avoiding the delete-part, and see if it works for me that way.
There's lots of good stuff I could use from this workshop. I can only think of one thing I don't agree with. That's the bad-messy-desk... I don't find it so bad... I just think that it depends on your style. I e.g. feel more creative when my stuff are all around me, while I'm working. The other part of the time, I like them orderly lying on my desk, but not while I'm working. (:
The most helpful thing of all was maybe the personal advise that Marcus gave me. It's about my problem with saying "No" to people's requests. It become clear, that half of the people in the group have that problem, but our reasons are different. Marcus tried to listen to all those reasons and to offer possible solutions. I could definitely use the one he came up with for me.
What I would like to be different is that we had more time for the topic Self-motivation. Marcus had some really interesting stuff about this, but there was just no time... And it's an important topic, cause you actually don't need all these work techniques, time management and learning strategies, if you cannot motivate yourself to do what you have to do, don't you think? So, maybe even a special workshop, devoted to Self-motivation, would be a good thing for the next STEPin course? (:
And remember: Always celebrate you success! (party)